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Two minutes before a meeting: the full sequence and where it drifts
Breath and Stillness

Two minutes before a meeting: the full sequence and where it drifts

Anyone who has spent time on two minutes before a meeting has a failure story: a strong start, a collapse in the middle, then silence. This is not…

Desmond OkonkwoDesmond Okonkwo·September 3, 2026·4 min read
A body scan before sleep: nine specific questions
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A body scan before sleep: nine specific questions

If you have already tried a body scan before sleep and dropped it, the fault is usually in the setup: a starting point set too high, an environment…

Priscilla VanePriscilla Vane·August 28, 2026·4 min read
Grounding techniques for anxiety: three things to understand first
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Grounding techniques for anxiety: three things to understand first

Most people want grounding techniques for anxiety to make things better. The workable version of that goal is steadier: a floor you can hit on a bad…

Rupert SloaneRupert Sloane·August 22, 2026·4 min read
Eyes open or closed: method, rhythm and limits
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Eyes open or closed: method, rhythm and limits

Anyone who has spent time on eyes open or closed has a failure story: a strong start, a collapse in the middle, then silence. This is not another…

Alaric PennAlaric Penn·August 16, 2026·4 min read
Choosing cushion height: a version you can actually follow
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Choosing cushion height: a version you can actually follow

There is plenty written about choosing cushion height and little you can act on. This piece stays concrete: every action can be done on the balcony…

Desmond OkonkwoDesmond Okonkwo·August 10, 2026·4 min read
Is ten minutes enough: judging it before you start
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Is ten minutes enough: judging it before you start

There is plenty written about is ten minutes enough and little you can act on. This piece stays concrete: every action can be done on the living room…

Priscilla VanePriscilla Vane·August 4, 2026·4 min read
Are meditation apps worth paying for: judging it before you start
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Are meditation apps worth paying for: judging it before you start

If you only read one paragraph, read this: are meditation apps worth paying for depends on how the situation is set up, not on how you feel at the…

Rupert SloaneRupert Sloane·July 29, 2026·4 min read
Breathing practice and blood pressure: four details people skip
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Breathing practice and blood pressure: four details people skip

Put breathing practice and blood pressure back into a real week, with overtime, travel and days you cannot be bothered. Any plan that only survives…

Alaric PennAlaric Penn·July 23, 2026·4 min read
Why you feel sleepy after sitting: three things to understand first
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Why you feel sleepy after sitting: three things to understand first

Most people want why you feel sleepy after sitting to make things better. The workable version of that goal is steadier: a floor you can hit on a bad…

Desmond OkonkwoDesmond Okonkwo·July 17, 2026·4 min read
What group practice adds: making the complicated part simple
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What group practice adds: making the complicated part simple

Anyone who has spent time on what group practice adds has a failure story: a strong start, a collapse in the middle, then silence. This is not…

Priscilla VanePriscilla Vane·July 11, 2026·4 min read
Breath rhythm while running: method, rhythm and limits
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Breath rhythm while running: method, rhythm and limits

Advice on breath rhythm while running tends to split in two: impossibly complex, or sold as one click. Reality sits between. It needs some patience…

Rupert SloaneRupert Sloane·July 5, 2026·4 min read
Three short sessions instead of one: a version you can actually follow
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Three short sessions instead of one: a version you can actually follow

Advice on three short sessions instead of one tends to split in two: impossibly complex, or sold as one click. Reality sits between. It needs some…

Alaric PennAlaric Penn·June 29, 2026·4 min read
How long until it counts as a habit: the order that saves effort
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How long until it counts as a habit: the order that saves effort

Most people want how long until it counts as a habit to make things better. The workable version of that goal is steadier: a floor you can hit on a…

Desmond OkonkwoDesmond Okonkwo·June 23, 2026·4 min read
Restarting after a break: the full sequence and where it drifts
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Restarting after a break: the full sequence and where it drifts

If you only read one paragraph, read this: restarting after a break depends on how the situation is set up, not on how you feel at the time. Arrange…

Priscilla VanePriscilla Vane·June 17, 2026·4 min read
A three-minute breathing practice: nine specific questions
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A three-minute breathing practice: nine specific questions

Anyone who has spent time on a three-minute breathing practice has a failure story: a strong start, a collapse in the middle, then silence. This is…

Rupert SloaneRupert Sloane·June 11, 2026·4 min read
Getting abdominal breathing right: the full sequence and where it drifts
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Getting abdominal breathing right: the full sequence and where it drifts

Most people do not fail at getting abdominal breathing right from misunderstanding it. They fail because understanding is not doing. What follows is…

Alaric PennAlaric Penn·June 5, 2026·4 min read
What to do when your legs go numb: three things to understand first
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What to do when your legs go numb: three things to understand first

Anyone who has spent time on what to do when your legs go numb has a failure story: a strong start, a collapse in the middle, then silence. This is…

Desmond OkonkwoDesmond Okonkwo·May 30, 2026·4 min read
Pace and counting in breath practice: judging it before you start
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Pace and counting in breath practice: judging it before you start

Most people want pace and counting in breath practice to make things better. The workable version of that goal is steadier: a floor you can hit on a…

Priscilla VanePriscilla Vane·May 24, 2026·4 min read
Returning after your mind wanders: three things to understand first
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Returning after your mind wanders: three things to understand first

If you have already tried returning after your mind wanders and dropped it, the fault is usually in the setup: a starting point set too high, an…

Rupert SloaneRupert Sloane·May 18, 2026·4 min read
The steadiest time of day to sit: the order that saves effort
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The steadiest time of day to sit: the order that saves effort

If you have already tried the steadiest time of day to sit and dropped it, the fault is usually in the setup: a starting point set too high, an…

Alaric PennAlaric Penn·May 12, 2026·4 min read